Husband s sex chat and family law
I confronted him right away on the phone and he was hysterical and apologized and begged me to stay.Long story short, we never sought therapy for it and I forgave him because I didn’t think he had any kind of addiction – I had never even heard of a sex addict. A year ago, I was visiting the US for 2 weeks and came back and was on the computer when I saw the history of web pages, I saw that he was on a pornography website.He came home about 15 minutes later and I flipped out. A few days have gone by and I’m convinced he has a sex addiction.I have never been so close in my life to hitting someone with intentions to create immense bodily harm. I immediately told him that he is to go to treatment and I will set boundaries, and it he does not seek treatment or abide by my boundaries, I will leave an divorce him.I’ve never done anything to her.” And the truth is, not all exes who act out are high-conflict.
It’s nearly impossible for her to have good feelings towards you when she’s still processing – or in denial of – the loss of her family. You actually did something worthy of her negative feelings: Are you consciously or subconsciously trying to make her look like a bad mom?But at the same time, she doesn’t necessarily want to meet you. It can be painful to see the man you think treated you so poorly, treating another women like a princess.She might think he’s being a fraud, or she might think “Why wasn’t worthy of being treated like that?Now that you’ve come along, dad is asking for more parenting time.With your support, your husband may now see that he should exercise his visitation more or that he’s now able to provide more stability for his kids.